When they conveyed the king’s order to Queen Vashti, she refused to come. (Esther 1:12)
Read: Esther 1:1-3:15, 1 Corinthians 11:17-34, Psalm 35:17-28, Proverbs 21:19-20
Relate: An offer was on the table. Actually, it was the combination of two offers. Bill’s father had owned a small seafood restaurant on the Louisiana coast. It had been his dad’s pride and joy and had been a staple of the tiny community for longer than Bill had been alive. These past few years, however, things had taken a turn for the worse. His dad had finally fallen to a long running war against cancer and the extended illness meant the place hadn’t received the attention it needed and it would be very costly to get the building up to code. Although Bill had graduated from restaurant management, he had lived in the northeast and had never planned to follow in his father’s footsteps and take over the family business.
As much as a decade back, a wealthy businessman from Chicago had offered to purchase the seafront property. He visited the restaurant, loved the view, and wanted to raze the building and turn the property into a winter vacation home. Bill’s dad had turned down multiple steadily increasing offers to buy the land. He had wanted to keep this pillar in the community, for the community. This latest offer was now being presented to Bill, who had inherited the restaurant. The other offer was use the capital from the sale and franchise a couple Burger Kings near Philadelphia where he had graduated college and where his wife’s family lived. This opportunity was far more lucrative and stable and would be far less work and effort than trying to revitalize his dad’s restaurant.
After praying it over and talking it through with his wife and pastor, Bill decided to take the hard road. He felt it would be right to honor his father’s wish and come home to take over and rebuild the business. He remembered all the people who regularly came there, the local fishermen who sold their goods there, and those who were employed at the restaurant. The community was struggling to stay alive already and one more business pulling out just might be too much. He declined the sale offer, got a loan from the local bank, and set to work. it was the right choice and he was glad he made it. It was good to come back home.
Then disaster struck. Three months after he took out the loan, Deepwater Horizon had their accident and BP oil started gushing into this part of the Golf of Mexico. The fishermen took their settlement and moved on to cleaner waters. It was too much and the town virtually ceased to exist. Three years later Bill was bankrupt and the front door to that little restaurant was shut for the last time. Now he is managing a Long John Silvers wondering how such a disastrous consequence could have come from doing the right thing.
React: Sometimes nice guys really do finish last. Sometimes bad things really can come from making the right choice. Does that mean it wasn’t actually the right choice?
There are two different opinions on Queen Vashti. The traditional Hebrew understanding of the woman is that she was “evil and proud”. Sorry if I think the patriarchal view of her found in the Midrash is just a wee bit misogynistic. I am not of the opinion that she was getting the just rewards for disobeying her husband. I lean more towards the modern feminist version of the queen. Her husband viewed her as a trophy wife to be shown off during one of his drunken revelries. She said, “I will not be objectified” and refused. As a result this once most powerful woman in the world of her time fades from view and into obscurity. Is that the price of integrity?
It is a sad fact in this fallen world that the deck is quite often stacked to favor the ambitious and unscrupulous. Have there been times in our lives when doing the right thing has cost us far more than we could have wished for? Have there been times when we chose not to do the right thing so that we could make a little extra money or get a bit further ahead? What price tag do I place on my integrity?
Help me to realign my values. Help me to adjust my understanding of what success is. Even if honesty requires me to fall from king-of-the-hill to bottom-of-the-well, give me the courage to speak the truth. Even if maintaining my integrity means losing everything else I have, let me hold on. How often I forget that nothing, absolutely nothing, is worth trading away heaven. Don’t let me sell my soul even if it means gaining the whole world. You are more than enough.
12 thoughts on “August 18 – The Price Tag Of Integrity”
Amen. The cost for integrity is often very high and sometimes is not the easiest decision to make. But one has to consider what they are willing to trade for their soul. As the Bible puts it there is nothing that can be traded that would be of equal value not even gaining the whole world. Thanks for sharing. Bless you
You write a very thoughtful and well presented blog. Thanks for taking the time to share with us your insights.
Hello ‘the river walk’. Your faith in the Lord and the way of looking things are so nice. Keep it up and keep posting such things!
I agree that keeping our integrity can often cost us a huge price in this natural world. However, concerning Vashti, we don’t know all of the circumstances of her refusal. We don’t know the king’s motive in asking, nor do we know her motive in refusing. One thing we can be sure of is that it was a very different world back then. Culture and customs of that day cannot be compared to those of today. We cannot judge an event from those days from our modern perspective. If we say that Vashti was wrong to disobey her husband, it doesn’t mean that a wife should be on display for her husband today. We all appreciate the tremendous progress that has come for women in these modern times.
Oh, I agree that the cultural mores and standards of that time would have been worlds different from what we have today. The Bible simply tells what happened, not the reasoning why and that is why I presented two different traditional opinions on it.
On the flip side, we cannot judge another culture based on our cultural standards but we can and certainly can judge both our culture and others based on how well they fall in line with God’s unchanging biblical moral standards. There are some things America does well and many other ways they fall vastly short. The same is true in the European/Middle Eastern blend that is Turkey. The same is true for the Persian empire of Esther and Vashti’s time. God’s truth does not change based on location, time, or traditions.
I love the river walk. Good reading along the way. 😀
Making the right choice in this world rarely pleases the world, but those who do according to God’s will, never come in last. It may be a hard road but it leads to glory. Thanks for the encouraging word.
God bless Bill. He may think he has lost everything, but he has a deep peace of mind and heart that is priceless. Yes, it is true. Nice is sometimes last…but that doesn’t mean that everything is lost.
wow! Thanks for this insightful piece. There was a time I “lost” a juicy career move because I declined to be dishonest at a stage in the recruitment. I felt stupid for a long time, a lot of people do dishonest stuff and get rewarded. For me, I just try to apply God’s word in my life. I have discovered that obeying daily in little areas, make it easier to yield to God and strengthens my faith.
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Sigh. Yep. Thank You.