February 3 – Love Your Neighbor

Turkish students in Istanbul, using the internet for constructive purposes

Turkish students in Istanbul, using the internet for constructive purposes

Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Matthew 22:37-39)

Read: Exodus 17:8-19:15, Matthew 22:34-23:12, Psalm 27:7-14, Proverbs 6:27-35

Relate: Last night I had dinner with two couples. In one couple the husband is French and the wife Ukrainian. In the other couple the husband is German and the wife is an African-American from New York. The French/Ukrainian couple have two beautiful brilliant little boys. The older (4) of these can speak and read in Russian, French, English, and Turkish. I can guarantee you his reading in English, his third language, is better than pretty much every four old I’ve met with one or two possible exceptions. This afternoon I will be having lunch with a couple who have recently moved to my city. The husband is Turkish and the wife Syrian. Tomorrow evening I will be teaching a small class that has four Turkish women and one Kurdish man. Among them there is family represented in Germany, Sweden, Australia, and Canada.

For me, considering people from every part of the world and from every nationality and language as my neighbor is an easy thing to do. In many ways it is true. While there aren’t many Americans here in Antep, there are loads of NGO’s with Europeans and Asians who have given up so much and care for people they have recognize as their neighbors long before they ever hopped on a plane. It is easy to empathize because I pretty much did the same thing.

What is hard for me is loving and recognizing as neighbors those who believe differently than me. I am not talking about those with vastly different views. No, that isn’t the issue. I am talking about people who agree with me on many things, people who come from the same cultural background and set of social mores, who then disagree on one specific point that I believe is crucial. This has come to the foreground in these past few days since the American president (I do not consider him mine not as a political statement so much as because Turkey is my home, the US is my past) signed an executive order banning people I know and love and respect and care about from being able to ever visit my old home until he gives a personal say so. While the specific executive order I can understand and respect (even if I do not agree), some of the rhetoric I have seen by those defending it gets my blood boiling. I mean, it really gets my blood boiling. I have to admit, it has been hard to remember that some of those people posting such things are my neighbors and people from my past that I really do love and respect and care deeply for. While I do believe I have done my best to keep discussion civil and informed, I will be the first to admit that I have spent far, far too much time and stress on pointless debates on social platforms that will never be conducive to creating anything but more anger, stress, and frustration on all sides.

React: If you were to look at a Jew and Samaritan from the time of Jesus you wouldn’t really be able to notice the difference from physical features alone. Ethnically they were almost identical. With their religious views they were far more similar than they were different. The divergence came from a few generations back. When the Jews went into exile in Babylon, the exiles ended up developing a much more racist and elitist platform to their views. It was during the exile that the feeling behind this famous saying became part of their identity: “God, I thank you that you that you have not created me a dog, a woman, or a gentile.” While they were in Babylon learning more and more to create an unsurpassable barrier between Jew and gentile, those who remained home were falling into their own error. They were integrating Jews and foreigners who had been brought in to help repopulate the area. The problem was, they were also integrating some of those foreign beliefs into their religion. Can you imagine the horror of the elitist purists when they return from exile to find that their neighbors who never left home had instead left the true path for some hodgepodge mix that became the Samaritan religion?

There is no hatred as bitter as between family and hatred between Jew and Samaritan was like two cousins in blood feud. Into this picture a Jewish scholar asks Jesus what the greatest commandment. Jesus answers, “Love God, love your neighbor.” The scholar asks a follow up, “Who is my neighbor.” Jesus answers this question by sharing the now famous story of the good Samaritan. The Jew’s neighbor is the Samaritan who looks just like them but believes vastly different. My neighbor are those Americans who in fanatical ignorance spew hate towards my Syrian friends and neighbors with whom I am trying to share the love of Jesus. I have to admit, I have not been nearly as loving to such neighbors as I should be. What about you… who is your neighbor? How can you show them love today?


Dear God,
Forgive me for not loving like You love. Forgive me for that uncontrollable urge to always be right and the need I feel I have to correct the wrong and inform the ignorant. Forgive me for not letting a matter drop and leaving it in your hands. Help me to understand that it is not my responsibility to fix all the problems in the world right here and right now. My job is to pray and trust and then love. Help me to remember that it is kindness that leads to repentance. Help me to love through kindness even those who consider me and my friends their enemies. Help me to not forget that they also are… all are… my neighbor.

16 thoughts on “February 3 – Love Your Neighbor

  1. This is a wonderful post, BJ. Love God and love people…if we can do those actions to the best of our ability, the rest of the commandments are easy to obey. Living in the U.S., it has been difficult for me to see the divide of people and the nasty comments on social media. I have yet to understand how those comments and the anger and fear from which they come, serve a positive or meaningful purpose. If we, as the human race, could just put aside our differences and learn to respect one another and love wholeheartedly, what a beautiful world this could be! I can understand why it may be difficult for you to love some people at this point in time, but it’s what Jesus wants us to do. We can set an example, BJ, that love really does conquer all.

  2. Beautiful post, BJ. Convicting and uplifting at the same time. Love is the attribute of our Lord and of our Father and it is the signal characteristic that indicates we are His children — “if you love me you will keep my commandments” John 14:15 And what is His commandment but that we should “love your neighbor as yourself” Matthew 22:39 and that we should “love one another” John 13.34. And that love includes those who may look or think differently than I do, even if they are sharing the same pew in worship with me!

  3. If you’re this moved by US immigration policy, you must be at least equally as moved by US foreign policy in support of Al-Qaeda and Al-Nusra. These groups have been actively murdering and terrorizing innocent citizens within the majority of countries affected by the immigration policy you reference.

  4. Right now. Today I’m reading a Biblical historical novel called Return to Me by Lynn Austin about the jews returning to Jerusalem after their seventy years in exile in Babylon and I’m at the part where the Samaritans are suggesting that they help these Jewish priests who’ve just returned to rebuild the temple. They, the Jews, believe that only they, the pure Jews, should be responsible for rebuilding the temple. What will they decide? I’ll have to read on. You really hit the nail on the head about the hardest person to love is that person to which you agree on most everything but…….that one critical thing. Man!!! And Jesus says…..to love. Just love.

  5. What is most sad because of truth is how this world of Christianity will like, share, and even say a few words on anything written with love being the issue; and I only speak those words because being almost 62, and an American that has lived this past decade in the Philippines with zero income, no bank account, and my wife’s much suffering from myoma, uti, congenital heart and even more health issues — even with now having 16 free websites, 1000 blogs on biblical truth regarding our coming destiny, and even a 474 page published book back in 2012 — today’s Christianity has well shown their fruits through Luke 6:43-46, John 15:1-6, and all the verses on loving others which none, no, not one does as written in the words we all are to live by — and then when a comment like this has been made — for the most part it totally ignored, or one or two may be in agreement — but still are not willing to sacrifice anything at all. Welcome to a living sacrifice who accepts, forgives, and keeps faith while knowing the worst timesoftrouble is growing near with Luke 6:38 being a reminder that what we do for others — Yehovah will do for us in the same measure. Or nothing for nothing — something for something in the scales.

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