John 15:9-10 (Remain)


I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey my commandments, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. (John 15:9-10)

Read: 2 Samuel 9:1 – 11:27, John 15:1-27, Psalm 119:49-64, Proverbs 16:1-3

Relate: One of the most shocking things I’ve ever seen happened about a year ago today. It was one of those beautiful days that come just as spring begins turning into summer. I didn’t have to be at work until later in the day and my plan had been to lounge around the house reading, but it was just too nice to stay inside. There were plenty of benches and picnic tables at the local park just blocks away and I decided to avail myself to one of those as I grabbed a book and headed out.

At the far end of the park there was a class of kids playing but on my end there only one older couple was walking around. This older couple was probably in their mid seventies or so which made what I saw so beautifully surprising. Most of the time they were walking hand in hand but at one point she let go and started walking a bit ahead. This older man got an evil grin on his face, reached over, and pinched his wife right on the butt. She yelped and turned around with this stern look on her face. I thought she was going to slap him but instead she reached up, grabbed him by the back of the neck, and pulled him into a passionate kiss. Both my book and my jaw dropped.

By the time you get to the second chapter of the book, Hosea’s wife had born him three children. Well, actually, she bore Hosea one child. The other two were illegitimate. She had gone from sleeping around on him to outright leaving him and going back to being a prostitute. As bad as being cuckolded would be in our time and culture, in Hosea’s time it was a hundred times more so. But what does Hosea say, “I am going to win her back. I will take her out into the wilderness and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. I will lavish her with gifts and she will give herself to me there as she did when she was young.” (Hosea 2:14-16)

In the book of Revelation the angel has a message for John to give to the church at Ephesus. He compliments them for their steady faithfulness. They have remained doctrinally pure and endured hard times faithfully. But he has a complaint. They have lost their first love. Their love for God isn’t very… passionate. The angel, however, offers a cure. Do the things you did at first. Actually, the word used is ergon which is almost always is translated as “deed” or “work”. It refers to a required job or task that needs to be accomplished.

React: I’m sure part of Hosea didn’t really “want” to take his unfaithful wife on a weekend getaway into the woods to win her back. It was a chore. God called him to love her and to keep loving her no matter how unfaithful she was. Obedience to God cost him his reputation and the respect of his peers. But he did it. He won her love. Then, he won her love again. The church at Ephesus probably didn’t want to do those “tasks” they did at first. If they did, the angel probably would have used a different word than “chore” to describe those works. But to win back their love, they had to do the work. I certainly didn’t want to see an old couple making out in public. But that’s a different story. The thing is, they’re still doing the things you would expect a teenage couple to be doing. It is no surprise that decades later they are still passionately in love. They’re still doing the things, the works, that got them in love in the first place.

Jesus said, “When you obey me, you remain in my love.” He isn’t saying, “Do what you’re supposed to do and I’ll keep loving you.” It is a proven fact that emotions will follow your actions. If you’re in a bad mood, start smiling, it will change pretty quick. If your faith seems all dried up, start praising God. It will come back. If you feel far from Him, start doing those things we define as following. You’ll be surprised how quick He’s right there again. If you want to stay in love with God… obey Him.


God, I come to You again. Sometimes I feel like my walk is more of a stutter step then a steady more. I make a few quick steps and then I pause. I get distracted. I am wooed away by the false beauty of so many other things in this world. Forgive me. Help me to keep my gaze on You. Help me to keep my focus on You. Help me to continue to faithfully and steadily keep doing those things that please Your heart. I don’t ever want to be anywhere else except completely and totally in love with You.

12 thoughts on “John 15:9-10 (Remain)

  1. Hi Beejai: I love it! What a beautiful analogy of the “lovers” in the woods with how we can get back in step with Christ. I dropped my jaw, too. lol

  2. Beejai, Great post-makes all the common sense that remains in the world.
    When we purchase a new car we receive an owner’s manual from the manufacturer. If we follow the directions within it, the car will function at peek performance and fullest longevity. But if we neglect to follow the manual the car will be more in the repair shop than out. And we will not enjoy the car as it was meant in its design.

    We, too, come with a manual for life from God. If we follow His manual by doing His will, we will enjoy life as he intended us to, and will receive a glimpse of the immeasurable joy that awaits the obedient in Heaven.

  3. Thank you, In reflection this is really an eye openner. Yes, I’ve said your prayers before and I was a bit lost spiritually. My greatest dream before is to serve the Lord achieving it but 3 tsunamis hit me from the mountain where i stand looking at the blue sea before me. Another dream occur I saw a mountain at nightime….I said , I want to be there then lights come from that mountain I was amazed that on top of that mountain there were people who lives there that keeps me wondering. Sometimes, God shatter us to make us realize the importance of life I hope to find it soner.

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